Stillbirth, Music, and Memory:A Conversation with Reva Judas and Chemdi Romer
- Reva Judas
- 5 hours ago
- 1 min read
When words aren’t enough, music often takes over.
In this video, NechamaComfort founder Reva Judas talks with Chemdi Romer about her journey after the loss of her daughter, Ahuva. They discuss the raw reality of the hospital experience, the importance of naming a baby, and how Chemdi turned her grief into a powerful song.
The Song for Ahuva
For Chemdi, music became a way to connect with the daughter she couldn't hold. Her song serves as a bridge between the pain of loss and the enduring love of a mother. It isn't just a melody; it’s a piece of Ahuva’s legacy.
Inside the Conversation:
The Hospital Experience: The shock of the news and the immediate support NechamaComfort provides.
The Power of a Name: Why naming Ahuva was a crucial step in the healing process.
Breaking the Silence: Why we must talk about infant loss openly within our community.
Healing through Art: How writing and singing helped Chemdi navigate her "new normal."
Watch and Listen
Whether you are walking this path yourself or supporting a loved one, this conversation offers a look at how we carry grief while still finding a way to sing.